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Interview with a 63-Year-Old Sober Person: Rick Moody
“When I was active, any stiff breeze, any mild bit of reversal, was enough to send me down into the narcissistic ball of pain. Now, mostly, I am just…
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Interview with a 56-Year-Old Sober Person: Margaret Cho
“I was definitely born with the ‘need.’ That urge to put something between me and living.”
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Interview with a 56-Year-Old Sober Person: Nadia Bolz-Weber
“Not only do I reliably know where I am when I wake up, I never wake up in pools of vodka vomit anymore. It’s so bad for your skin, you know . . . very…
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Interview with a 56-Year-Old Sober Person: Richard Rushfield
“Like so many, I grew up with broken tools for relating to others, and alcohol became the way I learned how to do that.”
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Interview with a 50-Year-Old Sober Person: Laurie Woolever
“Life is so much simpler, in the best possible way. Nothing is perfect, but I can see things for what they are.”
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Interview with a 51-Year-Old Sober Person: Sharon Silke
“I used to be really funny and entertaining, to a certain point, when I was drinking. That is, until I got messy and repetitive and annoying.”
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We Are Everywhere and We Are Thriving
“I began to notice the parts of life I always rushed through.”
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Interview with a 59-Year-Old Sober Person: Seth David Branitz
“Monstrous thoughts still form, but I recognize them and move quickly past. I no longer do terrible things to myself or others.”
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Interview with a 52-Year-Old Sober Person: Ana Marie Cox
“I’ve come to think of self-hatred as the addiction I’ve struggled with the most. It's the thing that will take me out.”
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Interview with a 64-Year-Old Sober Person: Nick Flynn
"For a little while it felt like I had figured it out, how to be both sober and to be fucked up. "
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Interview with a 54-Year-Old Sober Person: Kristi Coulter
"I don’t think being in recovery is hard. I think life is hard, and there is real horror in understanding that drinking cannot actually alter reality."
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Interview with a 65-Year-Old Sober Person: Kathy Valentine
"I had to learn how to be a grown-up—it didn’t help that I’d been a successful musician in a successful band throughout most of those years, which can…
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